Unspoken rules

Here's a few tips for the fellas.. a real list of REAL things to do & not to do. I saw these and just had to write them up and a few of my own. They are perfect, and pretty much sum up all the tips girls want guys to know. So here they are.. take note.

1. Shoes. Yes, this has to be #1 on the list. We check you.. look at the face, scan the stature, and our eyes automatically drop to the shoes. If you're wearing flip flops. . . cyaaaaaa. Those are only okay on one occasion and one occasion only.. Swimming. (boating and beach included) Otherwise don't wear them, simple as that. If you ever wear brown sandals, the huge skater shoes, or shoes that are falling apart - time to buy new shoes.

2. Teeth - please brush them. And floss them. Keep them clean. We love a good smile :) It's fine if you have to look in the mirror at your mouth.. better than having something stuck in your teeth or having spit or food on your mouth.

3. FACT. Opening car doors = real gentleman = very attractive. any door for that matter. If we're on a date, do it. If we're hanging out, do it. Yes, we do notice it and yes, we love it.

4. We like goodnight texts. We like good morning texts.

5. So let's talk about "the game." Yes we've all heard of it and probably played it too. Dating is a game. We will all continue to play it until we find the "Mr. or Mrs. Right."
        But let's get down to business.
Why does every girl love The Notebook? We don't expect to have a perfect fairytale life-but Noah was straight up REAL. We love real. Which leads us to #6...

6. If you're always trying to be "cool" you will never be "real" to us. JUST BE REALLLLLL! !

7. Don't play "too hard to get" & don't be too clingy. Don't get it twisted.

8. Make me laugh and let me be goofy. We love it. Sing songs with us in the car.

9. Let's talk about touch. Tickle my back and I will fall in love. Hold my hand. Just do it. Whether we are in public or alone. I personally hate PDA but holding hands is fine.

10. How to kiss - you should know by now. Don't be all over the place and sloppy - but I'm also not a tree, so don't be a woodpecker.

11. Respect us. Don't play with the line. We should never have to ask you to slow down.

12. Tip good. We do notice.

13. It is so attractive when you show love for your mom.

14. Show genuine interest in our lives. Ask questions and when it's time to listen, listen. Try to remember things we tell you.. it shows you care.

15. Don't talk about your exes, and don't ever compare us to them.

16. Compliment us. But a little secret about girls- is sometimes we don't know how to take compliments very well. But we appreciate your sincerity. Don't say we look "HOT"- how the heck are we supposed to accept that as a compliment. Tell us we look pretty, beautiful, gorgeous.. and be honest. Oh p.s. the compliment means 100x more when it's in person.

17. If you take more time to get ready than us--seriously stop.

18. Be patient with us. We may not know all the terms for the sports or cars, but we're trying.

19. Call us just to talk. You don't always have to have a reason. Put a little effort in once awhile. We will notice.

20. Don't be on your phone all night.

21. Please stay away from jean shorts.. unless they are khakis or army shorts mmm

22. And last but not least.. these 2 things get me everytime.
Kisses on the forehead and hugs from behind. Ahhh just thinking about them make me melt. Some girls don't like them, but they are my favorite.